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LIFE STAGES

Learning to inhale

I brought my newborn to visit a hospice patient. It took me far from what I’d thought medicine was

by Lynn Hallarman

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TECHNOLOGY AND MEDIA

Curious about a digital ‘detox’? Here’s what you should know

For many who are chronically connected, a break from tech sounds appealing. Research is uncovering when and how it helps

by Kostadin Kushlev

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DANCE

How to start learning dance

Follow these steps to find a style of movement that will captivate you – even if you’ve never seen yourself as a dancer

by Dawn Davis Loring

Ideas

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CIVIC LIFE

We’re losing trust in civic institutions – can we get it back?

by Ros Taylor

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CIVIC LIFE

Tolerance isn’t just nice, it’s a civic virtue we all can build

by Kiran Kumbhar

Guides

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GRIEF
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How to talk to someone who’s grieving

It’s normal to worry you’ll say the wrong thing. Here’s how to ensure your words and gestures are as supportive as possible

by Lauren Breen & Maarten Eisma

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COMMUNICATION AND LANGUAGE

How to talk to yourself

Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well

by Maryellen MacDonald

Life stories

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TECHNOLOGY AND MEDIA
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My chatbot therapist

Constant access, near-perfect memory, analytic reach – ChatGPT provides things a therapist never could

by Sabela Guravich

Editor’s picks

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EMOTION REGULATION
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How to take the high road

When someone provokes you, it’s easy to react without thinking. Learn to slow down and respond in ways you’ll be proud of

by Alissa Hebbeln & Russell Kolts

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EMOTIONS
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There’s something in my eye: why we happy-cry and what it does for us

Happy tears are often neglected in emotion research. But there are many types, and they have an important function

by Janis Zickfeld

Latest videos

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HISTORY OF IDEAS

What a romantic comedy cliché reveals about modern love

Video by The Nerdwriter

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HOME

A modern ‘cave man’ on the business of living authentically

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LOVE

More than laissez-faire love – demystifying modern polyamory

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HOME

Memories of home adopt surreal shapes in a Sudanese expat’s art

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LOVE

More than just a feeling, love can guide our moral compasses

Notes to self

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LOVE

It’s a gift to share reality with someone

by Hannah Seo

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EMOTIONS

Why kama muta is an emotion worth seeking

by Hannah Seo

Popular

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DEATH AND DYING
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The existential balm of seeing yourself as a verb, not a noun

In the therapy room, I’ve seen how rethinking what we are – and what it means to ‘be dead’ – can lighten our fears

by Eric Jannazzo

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INTEGRATIVE THERAPY
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How to stop your life playing on repeat

Those frustrating patterns you keep experiencing might be because of your schemas – and there’s a therapy that can help

by Gemma Gladstone

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COMMUNICATION AND LANGUAGE

How to talk to yourself

Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well

by Maryellen MacDonald

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MEANING AND THE GOOD LIFE
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Your purpose isn’t something to find, it’s something you form

In my therapy office, I’ve found that to live with greater purpose, we must think differently about where it comes from

by Ross White

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MEMORY AND NOSTALGIA

How to be the archivist of your own family

By curating your family’s stories, rituals and relics, you’ll feel anchored – and create a bridge between the generations

by Samantha Ellis

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LEARNING AND EDUCATION

Why are we curious about some things and indifferent to others?

Many of us crave trivial details while ignoring much of the world around us. Research helps explain this selective curiosity

by Tommy Blanchard

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HABITS AND ROUTINES

Why some healthy habits still take so much effort

Contrary to classic habit science, certain behaviours never become easy. Recognising this can help you stick with them

by Blair Saunders & Kimberly R More

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GRIEF
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How to talk to someone who’s grieving

It’s normal to worry you’ll say the wrong thing. Here’s how to ensure your words and gestures are as supportive as possible

by Lauren Breen & Maarten Eisma

Explore: Stories and literature

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STORIES AND LITERATURE
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‘Once upon a time…’ Deconstructing our insatiable appetite for stories

Directed by Aisling Chin-Yee

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STORIES AND LITERATURE

In Viking sagas, the ‘truth’ is a tangle of history and fiction

by Anatoly Liberman

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SYMBOLS AND MYTH
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A Navajo creation story illustrates why humans must forge their own path

Directed by Dallin Penman