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DEATH AND DYING
4

The existential balm of seeing yourself as a verb, not a noun

In the therapy room, I’ve seen how rethinking what we are – and what it means to ‘be dead’ – can lighten our fears

by Eric Jannazzo

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OCD

The unravelling

I’d lived through two eras: pre and post OCD diagnosis. Nothing prepared me for what the third era held

by Lux Alptraum

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MEMORY AND NOSTALGIA

How to be the archivist of your own family

By curating your family’s stories, rituals and relics, you’ll feel anchored – and create a bridge between the generations

by Samantha Ellis

Ideas

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COMMUNITY

The existential struggle between being a ‘we’ and an ‘us’

by Tris Hedges

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ANXIETY

What rituals from the past teach us about panic and anxiety

by Mariem El-Kady

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GOALS AND MOTIVATION

The Ozempic era should change how we think about self-control

by Matthew C Haug

Guides

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INTEGRATIVE THERAPY
3

How to stop your life playing on repeat

Those frustrating patterns you keep experiencing might be because of your schemas – and there’s a therapy that can help

by Gemma Gladstone

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THERAPEUTIC RELATIONSHIPS

How to deal with doubts about your therapist

It’s not wrong to wonder whether your therapist is helping – it could be a useful signal. Here’s what to do next

by Alice Rizzi

Life stories

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PLEASURES AND PASTIMES
1

A psalm for lost spaces

You have to sit down somewhere, unhurried and unbothered, to really hear yourself. But where?

by Atar Hadari

Editor’s picks

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FRIENDSHIP
6

How to support a struggling friend

Sometimes it’s hard to know what to say or do. Use these five strategies for providing effective emotional support

by Elise Kalokerinos

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STIGMA AND TABOO

Let’s avoid talk of ‘chemical imbalance’: it’s people in distress

The ‘chemical imbalance’ trope is appealing but dehumanising, and has heightened stigma towards people with mental illness

by Joseph E Davis

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LOVE

More than just a feeling, love can guide our moral compasses

Video by The Well

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FOOD AND DRINK

‘Sonic branding’ and other ways food marketing keeps you hooked

Notes to self

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DECISION-MAKING

For maximisers, bad choices really sting

by Richard Fisher

Popular

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PLEASURES AND PASTIMES

Guilty pleasures are more than just giving in to temptation

Psychologists are discovering what’s going on when you do something you enjoy, but also feel weird or embarrassed about

by LaCount ‘JJ’ Togans

A woman wearing a black gown and veil, and gold and turquoise jewellery raises her harms with eyes closed; musicians wearing headdresses play drums in the background in a dimly lit setting.
ANXIETY

What rituals from the past teach us about panic and anxiety

In the sensory and communal modes of healing that people have used throughout history, there is guidance for today

by Mariem El-Kady

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THINKING AND INTELLIGENCE
6

How to use AI chatbots to make you smarter, not dumber

Use AI thoughtlessly and it dulls your mind. But with a strategic approach and the right prompts, it can be a powerful tool

by Nick Kabrel

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MIND-BODY INTERACTIONS

Stronger

When grief and distraction spun my mind out of control, only the strain of my muscles could keep it intact

by Nancy Uddin

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INTEGRATIVE THERAPY
3

How to stop your life playing on repeat

Those frustrating patterns you keep experiencing might be because of your schemas – and there’s a therapy that can help

by Gemma Gladstone

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THINKERS AND THEORIES

Can an entire society be mentally ill? A perspective from 1960

Video by The Search for America

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TECHNOLOGY AND MEDIA
10

Why AI’s hallucinations are like the illusions of narcissism

Unable to handle uncertainty, AI mimics the narcissistic compulsion to fill voids with plausible but false narratives

by Jennine Gates

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GOALS AND MOTIVATION

The Ozempic era should change how we think about self-control

Struggling to manage weight can seem like a failure of raw willpower. GLP-1 drugs highlight how misguided that view is

by Matthew C Haug

Explore: Poetry

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THINKERS AND THEORIES

Embrace conflict, reject authority – William Blake’s radical vision of a meaningful life

Video by Great Books Explained

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LOVE
10

There’s no good reason to love each other – and that’s a relief

by John Kaag

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POETRY

‘You are me; I am you’ – a trans poet’s evocative message to her former self

Video by On Being

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POETRY

Reignite your creative fire with blackout poetry – the art of framing what’s already there

Directed by Andrew Lavers

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POETRY
1

How to write a love poem

by Dan Simpson

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THEATRE AND PERFORMANCE
1

The barbarians are at the gates in this electric Laurie Anderson performance

Video by All Arts