Ian Kerner

Licensed Psychotherapist and Sexuality Counsellor, The Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy

Ian Kerner is the co-founder and co-director of the sex therapy division at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, and he maintains a private practice in New York City dedicated to honouring the centrality of sexuality in people’s lives. He is the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First (2004) and the recently published So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (2021).

Written by Ian Kerner

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How to get the excitement back

Long-term sexual boredom is common but not inevitable. Use these five focused strategies to rekindle your sex life together

by Ian Kerner