Notes to self

Recommendations and insights based on research, books, films and more
A bearded person gently cradling a newborn wrapped in a patterned blanket by a window in soft light.

Why kama muta is an emotion worth seeking

by Hannah Seo

A dimly lit street with parked cars at night. A building has a large, vertical “HOTEL” sign illuminated.

For maximisers, bad choices really sting

by Richard Fisher

A microphone in focus with a blurred background of people seated at tables in a dimly lit room.

A memory hack to help you face your fears

There’s a way to recall past encounters with your fears that could help you feel more confident facing them in future

by Christian Jarrett

A curious brown chicken looking at the camera with several other chickens blurred in the background.

The dissonance of meeting what you eat

by Matt Huston

Aerial photo of Würzburg, a European cityscape with historic buildings, church spires and a clock tower under a partly cloudy sky.
TRAVEL

Why ‘false authenticity’ is so unsettling

The Old Town of Würzburg seemed to offer a real connection to the past. But none of it was authentic

by Sam Dresser

An elderly man seated on a city street as skateboarders perform tricks around him.

Where are you on the ‘happiness curve’?

by Richard Fisher

A person lying in bed under a duvet, arms covering face; bedside table with books, a lamp, a mug and reading glasses.

Sleep is important, but not that important

by Alice Gregory

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Photo of a boxing match with a standing boxer in the ring and an opponent kneeling behind, lit by overhead lights.

Motivation is good, but discipline is better

The Ukrainian boxing champion Usyk’s recent claim that ‘discipline is better than motivation’ was psychologically astute

by Christian Jarrett

A switched-off smartphone on a bright yellow surface with fingerprints and smudges on the black screen.

A brief escape from social media

After leaving my phone behind for a week and coming back to it, I saw my social media use in a stark new light

by Tamur Qutab

A photo showing a person holding a bouquet of mixed flowers wrapped in brown paper, viewed from above and behind.

The words that make an apology convincing

Research on the psychology of apologising finds that certain word choices are more convincing because of their mental cost

by Alice Gregory

An elderly man seated on a city street as skateboarders perform tricks around him.

Where are you on the ‘happiness curve’?

When I came across the U-shaped happiness curve, I knew I had to act if I wanted to buck the midlife average

by Richard Fisher

A painting on a wall with a man in a suit standing in profile beside a doorway in an art gallery.

Embrace the monotony

A museum guard’s tale of long, slow hours on the job changed how I think about seemingly empty stretches of time

by Hannah Seo

Aerial photo of Würzburg, a European cityscape with historic buildings, church spires and a clock tower under a partly cloudy sky.
TRAVEL

Why ‘false authenticity’ is so unsettling

The Old Town of Würzburg seemed to offer a real connection to the past. But none of it was authentic

by Sam Dresser

A silhouette pressing hands on a frosted glass door in an abandoned room with peeling paint on walls and door.

How scary is it really?

Research on frightening but fun experiences offers some encouragement for those of us who prefer to know what’s ahead

by Matt Huston

A curious brown chicken looking at the camera with several other chickens blurred in the background.

The dissonance of meeting what you eat

An uncomfortable reminder of the tension between your beliefs and behaviour might give you the push you need to change

by Matt Huston

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Photo of a boxing match with a standing boxer in the ring and an opponent kneeling behind, lit by overhead lights.

Motivation is good, but discipline is better

The Ukrainian boxing champion Usyk’s recent claim that ‘discipline is better than motivation’ was psychologically astute

by Christian Jarrett

A switched-off smartphone on a bright yellow surface with fingerprints and smudges on the black screen.

A brief escape from social media

After leaving my phone behind for a week and coming back to it, I saw my social media use in a stark new light

by Tamur Qutab

A photo showing a person holding a bouquet of mixed flowers wrapped in brown paper, viewed from above and behind.

The words that make an apology convincing

Research on the psychology of apologising finds that certain word choices are more convincing because of their mental cost

by Alice Gregory

A group of office workers turned to face a colleague, clapping and smiling, in a modern meeting room setting.

Are you saying ‘thank you’ too effusively?

by Christian Jarrett

People dancing at an outdoor festival, colourful tents in background, clear blue sky overhead.
MUSIC

The beats that make us want to move

by Matt Huston

Three people chatting at a rustic bar in a pub, with a brick interior and various decorations.

Our relationships, in five dimensions

by Matt Huston