Notes to self

Recommendations and insights based on research, books, films and more
Woman in historical dress washing her hands with water poured by a child from a jug, with onlookers in an ornate interior setting.
OCD

Forever compelled

by Matt Huston

A couple sitting in a beach chair on a sandy shore during a cloudy evening surrounded by empty striped chairs.
LOVE

It’s a gift to share reality with someone

by Hannah Seo

A bearded person gently cradling a newborn wrapped in a patterned blanket by a window in soft light.

Why kama muta is an emotion worth seeking

by Hannah Seo

A dimly lit street with parked cars at night. A building has a large, vertical “HOTEL” sign illuminated.

For maximisers, bad choices really sting

We all make wrong decisions, but if you’re a ‘maximiser’ rather than a ‘satisficer’, the regret hurts all the more

by Richard Fisher

A microphone in focus with a blurred background of people seated at tables in a dimly lit room.

A memory hack to help you face your fears

by Christian Jarrett

A curious brown chicken looking at the camera with several other chickens blurred in the background.

The dissonance of meeting what you eat

An uncomfortable reminder of the tension between your beliefs and behaviour might give you the push you need to change

by Matt Huston

Aerial photo of Würzburg, a European cityscape with historic buildings, church spires and a clock tower under a partly cloudy sky.
TRAVEL

Why ‘false authenticity’ is so unsettling

by Sam Dresser

An elderly man seated on a city street as skateboarders perform tricks around him.

Where are you on the ‘happiness curve’?

by Richard Fisher

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A silhouette pressing hands on a frosted glass door in an abandoned room with peeling paint on walls and door.

How scary is it really?

Research on frightening but fun experiences offers some encouragement for those of us who prefer to know what’s ahead

by Matt Huston

A couple sitting in a beach chair on a sandy shore during a cloudy evening surrounded by empty striped chairs.
LOVE

It’s a gift to share reality with someone

My partner and I often seem to respond to the world in similar ways. Research suggests this may have benefits for us both

by Hannah Seo

A microphone in focus with a blurred background of people seated at tables in a dimly lit room.

A memory hack to help you face your fears

There’s a way to recall past encounters with your fears that could help you feel more confident facing them in future

by Christian Jarrett

Illustration of a colourful green and red parrot perched on a branch, against a plain beige background.

What I found in one of the tiniest languages

The great complexity and extraordinary simplicity of a constructed language with no more than 140 words

by Hannah H Kim

Painting of a crucifixion scene with a large crowd, a detailed medieval cityscape with mountains and a lake in the background.

A lesson from the Son of Man’s manhood

Renaissance artists paid uncommon attention to Jesus’ nether regions. What does this breach in modesty reveal about art?

by Sam Dresser

A dimly lit street with parked cars at night. A building has a large, vertical “HOTEL” sign illuminated.

For maximisers, bad choices really sting

We all make wrong decisions, but if you’re a ‘maximiser’ rather than a ‘satisficer’, the regret hurts all the more

by Richard Fisher

A bearded person gently cradling a newborn wrapped in a patterned blanket by a window in soft light.

Why kama muta is an emotion worth seeking

I wasn’t quite sure what this moving, warm-and-fuzzy feeling was, until research put a name to it: ‘kama muta’

by Hannah Seo

Photo of a person browsing colourful clothes on wooden hangers in a wardrobe, highlighting diverse patterns and textures.

Vintage clothes: a balm for my perfectionism

Loose threads, tugged seams and torn hems. How wearing vintage clothes helps me accept the discomfort of imperfection

by Freya Howarth

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A silhouette pressing hands on a frosted glass door in an abandoned room with peeling paint on walls and door.

How scary is it really?

Research on frightening but fun experiences offers some encouragement for those of us who prefer to know what’s ahead

by Matt Huston

A couple sitting in a beach chair on a sandy shore during a cloudy evening surrounded by empty striped chairs.
LOVE

It’s a gift to share reality with someone

My partner and I often seem to respond to the world in similar ways. Research suggests this may have benefits for us both

by Hannah Seo

A microphone in focus with a blurred background of people seated at tables in a dimly lit room.

A memory hack to help you face your fears

There’s a way to recall past encounters with your fears that could help you feel more confident facing them in future

by Christian Jarrett

A person lying in bed under a duvet, arms covering face; bedside table with books, a lamp, a mug and reading glasses.

Sleep is important, but not that important

by Alice Gregory

A group of office workers turned to face a colleague, clapping and smiling, in a modern meeting room setting.

Are you saying ‘thank you’ too effusively?

by Christian Jarrett

People dancing at an outdoor festival, colourful tents in background, clear blue sky overhead.
MUSIC

The beats that make us want to move

by Matt Huston