Sex and sexuality

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

How to handle a mismatch in sexual desire

A difference in sexual appetite is a common source of tension for couples. Don’t ignore it – turn toward it with curiosity

by Ann O’Brien

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

Sweet illustrations capture women’s stories of first-time queer attraction

A film by Diane Obomsawin

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

Shuli’s mother has known he was gay for years. Can they finally talk about it?

A film by Shuli Huang

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SOCIAL HISTORY

How the law soothed broken hearts in 19th-century America

What does a deep dive into the transcripts of historical seduction trials reveal about how we account for hurt feelings?

by Jinal Dadiya

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ARTISTS AND ART HISTORY

A minotaur shifts shapes and sexes in this ferociously original animation

A film by Chaerin Im

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PARENTING AND FAMILIES

No kidding! Inside one childless comedian’s choice to get a vasectomy

A film by Jordan Temple

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WORK AND VOCATION

The ways Sugar Babies navigate two roles: lover and employee

‘Sugaring’ involves the commodification of romance – presenting a puzzle of love, labour and autonomy for those involved

by Brynn Valentine

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MUSIC

Courtly love songs are a window into medieval sex lives

Song lyrics acted as a sexual script for aristocrats, revealing some edgy practices that ignited their imaginations

by Elizabeth Eva Leach

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

Everything I know about flirting, I learned from the Cold War

The rewards of flirtation go beyond sex or romance. But, as in other exchanges, you have to know where the red line is

by Youngbin Yoon

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

Sarah recalls how sex, religion and shame have intertwined in her mind

Directed by Lori Malépart-Traversy

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LOVE

In the bliss of budding love, a couple becomes – quite literally – entangled

Directed by Ben Brewer

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SEX AND SEXUALITY

My take on ‘Venus in Furs’ as a modern-day dominatrix

My experiences as a 21st-century femdom echo the gendered themes that feature in Leopold von Sacher-Masoch’s 1870 novel

by Gia Marcos

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ANIMALS

Same-sex sexual behaviour in mammals evolved to keep the peace

Although these new findings can’t tell us much about human sexuality, they could help to solve an evolutionary paradox

by Shayla Love

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CHILDHOOD AND ADOLESCENCE

Charting seven decades of heartbreak and rebellion for queer teens at prom

Directed by Andrew Moir

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PARENTING AND FAMILIES

How to talk to your children about sex

It’s not about one embarrassing ‘big talk’. Prepare and protect them by applying these basic principles early and often

by Eva Goldfarb

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PARENTING AND FAMILIES

Young, gay and Arab, Omar navigates the seasons of his life in Montreal

Directed by Aziz Zoromba