Change and self-development

Articles, Films and practical Guides on change and self-development, part of Psyche’s coverage of self-knowledge and personal growth.
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How cultural outsiders cope with the pain of feeling different

In therapy with people from immigrant families, I’ve seen the side effects of adaptation – and what it takes to break free

by Dennis Portnoy

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Try everything twice

Deciding to give more experiences a second chance changed my personality for the better and made me a happier person

by Hannah Seo

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How to cope with disruptive change

You can’t stop life from throwing changes your way, big and small. But you can get a lot better at dealing with them

by David A Clark

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How meditation can boost your brain’s capacity to adapt

Video by BBC News

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How to think differently about procrastination

Avoid the trap of thinking you’re either working or not. A different mindset promises less self-judgment and more progress

by Rebecca Roache

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Your purpose isn’t something to find, it’s something you form

In my therapy office, I’ve found that to live with greater purpose, we must think differently about where it comes from

by Ross White

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Loafing around at Rikers

What making – and breaking – bread in jail taught me about work and friendship

by J V

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For maximisers, bad choices really sting

We all make wrong decisions, but if you’re a ‘maximiser’ rather than a ‘satisficer’, the regret hurts all the more

by Richard Fisher

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How to stop your life playing on repeat

Those frustrating patterns you keep experiencing might be because of your schemas – and there’s a therapy that can help

by Gemma Gladstone

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The Ozempic era should change how we think about self-control

Struggling to manage weight can seem like a failure of raw willpower. GLP-1 drugs highlight how misguided that view is

by Matthew C Haug

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How to adventure beyond the same old foods

Most of us develop comfort zones with food. Expand your palate and discover new flavours, techniques and connections

by Nina Mukerjee Furstenau

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James Earl Jones reads Kurt Vonnegut on why art is central to a meaningful life

Video by Letters Live

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We’re naturally bad at predicting what will make us happy. Here’s how to adjust

Video by The Well

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A little Japanese trick for saying ‘no’

If an outright refusal feels rude but you don’t want to have to explain, here’s how to say ‘no’ the Japanese way

by Richard Fisher

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How increasing short-term pleasure can help you achieve your long-term goals

Video by TED-Ed

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The critic inside your head has something important to tell you. Here’s how to listen

Video by Esther Perel