Communication and language

Articles, Films and practical Guides on communication and language, part of Psyche’s coverage of relationships, work and leisure.
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For some with mental illness, it’s not always good to talk

Well-meaning campaigns urge openness and conversation about mental health struggles. But there are those who cherish silence

by Dan Degerman

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MUSIC

How Bobby McFerrin draws out mesmerising music from any audience

Video by World Science Festival

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Why being ghosted is inevitable and being a ghoster is too

Being ghosted can feel shocking. But we need to get used to it because there’s no other way to cope with our world

by Dominic Pettman

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How to talk to yourself

Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well

by Maryellen MacDonald

A tree-lined path in autumn with people walking and sitting on benches, covered by colourful foliage.

The existential struggle between being a ‘we’ and an ‘us’

Sartre’s phenomenology reveals how a shift from subject to object (and back) is not merely a matter of grammar

by Tris Hedges

Illustration of a colourful green and red parrot perched on a branch, against a plain beige background.

What I found in one of the tiniest languages

The great complexity and extraordinary simplicity of a constructed language with no more than 140 words

by Hannah H Kim

A drone flying above a whale’s surfaced back in the ocean with water droplets in the air.

Even if we could speak to animals, should we?

AI could satisfy our deeply held desire to talk to other creatures. But the potential for harm might outweigh the benefits

by Virginie Simoneau-Gilbert & Leonie Bossert

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Mind the accent

When I spoke like someone I wasn’t, people listened more closely. What did that say about them – and me?

by Erica Mayor

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For young people, AI is now a second brain – should we worry?

As a resident tutor, I’ve seen how students are using AI as more than a tool. It’s a psychological shift we’ll soon all make

by Rhea Tibrewala

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The words that make an apology convincing

Research on the psychology of apologising finds that certain word choices are more convincing because of their mental cost

by Alice Gregory

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How to check if an argument is valid

In logic, validity is prime. If you want to make valid arguments, or sniff out invalid ones, here’s what you need to do

by Robert Trueman

Collage of animal photos with progressively simplified line drawings of a flamingo, giraffe and cat.

From cave art to subatomic sketches – how drawing has accelerated human progress

Video by MIT Quest for Intelligence

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Whispers in the wind

How I learned to hear the voice of my ancestors and speak Lenape, a language silenced for generations

Krista Nelson, as told to Dawn Fallik

A woman with a headset giving a presentation. She gestures with her hand. The background is wood paneling.

Why the mental health awareness movement needs more precision and fewer vibes

Video by the Royal Institution

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A detour home, through Portuguese

Losing my mother tongue was painful and humiliating. Could learning a new language help me heal?

by Frances Nguyen