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The bonds that tie us: family, friendships, love and community


Curious about a digital ‘detox’? Here’s what you should know
For many who are chronically connected, a break from tech sounds appealing. Research is uncovering when and how it helps
by Kostadin Kushlev

My chatbot therapist
Constant access, near-perfect memory, analytic reach – ChatGPT provides things a therapist never could
by Sabela Guravich

We’re losing trust in civic institutions – can we get it back?
Historically, trust in institutions freed us to do extraordinary things. They can be flawed, but we lose them at our peril
by Ros Taylor

Tolerance isn’t just nice, it’s a civic virtue we all can build
At a time of rising intolerance, the century-old work of C E M Joad reminds us what tolerance really is and why we need it
by Kiran Kumbhar
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How to talk to yourself
Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well
by Maryellen MacDonald

How to adventure beyond the same old foods
Most of us develop comfort zones with food. Expand your palate and discover new flavours, techniques and connections
by Nina Mukerjee Furstenau
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How to talk to yourself
Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well
by Maryellen MacDonald

Even if we could speak to animals, should we?
AI could satisfy our deeply held desire to talk to other creatures. But the potential for harm might outweigh the benefits
by Virginie Simoneau-Gilbert & Leonie Bossert

Why AI’s hallucinations are like the illusions of narcissism
Unable to handle uncertainty, AI mimics the narcissistic compulsion to fill voids with plausible but false narratives
by Jennine Gates

The existential struggle between being a ‘we’ and an ‘us’
Sartre’s phenomenology reveals how a shift from subject to object (and back) is not merely a matter of grammar
by Tris Hedges

My cousin Anna
As a Korean adoptee, I’d never expected to meet a blood relative. Then a 23andMe email landed in my inbox
by Andrew Lee

Curious about a digital ‘detox’? Here’s what you should know
For many who are chronically connected, a break from tech sounds appealing. Research is uncovering when and how it helps
by Kostadin Kushlev

Experiments in resistance
When I tested people’s blood after a protest, I discovered that science itself could be a form of dissent
Alexander Samuel, as told to Christine Ro

Tolerance isn’t just nice, it’s a civic virtue we all can build
At a time of rising intolerance, the century-old work of C E M Joad reminds us what tolerance really is and why we need it
by Kiran Kumbhar
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How to talk to yourself
Self-talk is a proven way to boost motivation, think clearly and process your emotions. These tips will help you use it well
by Maryellen MacDonald

Even if we could speak to animals, should we?
AI could satisfy our deeply held desire to talk to other creatures. But the potential for harm might outweigh the benefits
by Virginie Simoneau-Gilbert & Leonie Bossert

Why AI’s hallucinations are like the illusions of narcissism
Unable to handle uncertainty, AI mimics the narcissistic compulsion to fill voids with plausible but false narratives
by Jennine Gates

The existential struggle between being a ‘we’ and an ‘us’
Sartre’s phenomenology reveals how a shift from subject to object (and back) is not merely a matter of grammar
by Tris Hedges
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More than laissez-faire love – demystifying modern polyamory

Memories of home adopt surreal shapes in a Sudanese expat’s art

More than just a feeling, love can guide our moral compasses

‘Sonic branding’ and other ways food marketing keeps you hooked

What comfort can images give us when someone we love is gone?
Freedom, joy and struggle – stories of Los Angeles street life

Loafing around at Rikers
What making – and breaking – bread in jail taught me about work and friendship
by Jamie Valentino

The empathy lie
In medicine, empathy came easy. In friendship, it fell apart. An autism diagnosis helped me understand why
by Zoë Read

The existential struggle between being a ‘we’ and an ‘us’
Sartre’s phenomenology reveals how a shift from subject to object (and back) is not merely a matter of grammar
by Tris Hedges

Fight like a mother
Doctors said my son would die. I wouldn’t believe them, raised millions of dollars and travelled the world for a cure
Amber Freed, as told to Lina Zeldovich

My cousin Anna
As a Korean adoptee, I’d never expected to meet a blood relative. Then a 23andMe email landed in my inbox
by Andrew Lee

Blame the ‘greedy bastards’, and you protect the greedy systems
The most vehement and damaging charges of ‘greed’ get directed at precisely those who are being stripped of everything
by David Keen

Defensible space
My husband was in crisis and our home faced wildfire. When it came, I saw the cost of holding the line
by Moonshine Matthiessen

Why AI’s hallucinations are like the illusions of narcissism
Unable to handle uncertainty, AI mimics the narcissistic compulsion to fill voids with plausible but false narratives
by Jennine Gates

Experiments in resistance
When I tested people’s blood after a protest, I discovered that science itself could be a form of dissent
Alexander Samuel, as told to Christine Ro

Accidental millionaire
When a big deposit appeared from nowhere in my account, it changed my life – but not how you’d think
by Kelvin Njeri

The dissonance of meeting what you eat
An uncomfortable reminder of the tension between your beliefs and behaviour might give you the push you need to change
by Matt Huston

Even if we could speak to animals, should we?
AI could satisfy our deeply held desire to talk to other creatures. But the potential for harm might outweigh the benefits
by Virginie Simoneau-Gilbert & Leonie Bossert

The circle held
A bike crash left my husband paralysed. What happened next taught me something profound about community
by Sadie Witkowski

Mind the accent
When I spoke like someone I wasn’t, people listened more closely. What did that say about them – and me?
by Erica Mayor

Again, again, again
I’m not infertile, but I experience recurrent miscarriages. I worry about how many more I can take
by Jami Nakamura Lin

How luxury brands engineer desire with behavioural economics
From scarcity to market architecture, luxury fashion is manipulating our tastes. But a vintage countermovement has begun
by Charlotte Wren


